Well, I'm glad the visa thing is (nearly) done; that's something. I hope work isn't so bad - and, well, I suppose at least it's Friday (if weekends apply here)? :-/

It's sad to lose an flister, but... well, what can one say about people once they deliberately try to game the system of an important award? Points of view and however nice they may be to their families or whatever, that's definitely a step way over the line & maybe you've enough stuff going on to need someone who thinks that's reasonable behaviour on your flist. ♥