Dept. of Sunday
Sunday, 19 March 2017 06:29 pmObserving the Oncoming Storm Week
I'm almost afraid to say this, kinehora, but I'm feeling better about myself than I did at the end of last week. That took working some self-imposed non-paid work-related overtime this weekend (about 11-12 hours over two days), which has caused BB to side-eye me a bit, but ultimately he understood that, if it took that to stop me beating myself up about the work situation, then it was - barely - worth it. As a union rep, I should be reading myself the riot act, but mental and emotional self-care trumps the contract - something I wouldn't tell many of my younger colleagues, who routinely let themselves be coerced into working hours and hours without putting in for the OT. They're getting coerced, though, so I have to stand behind them and give them the strength to resist doing that. What I'm doing is, as I've said, quiet self-care.
Yeah, sure, whatever, dude. So long as you believe it.
We're having corned beef and cabbage tonight, two days too late, if one believes strictly in holiday-centric menus. I used to dislike boiled cabbage with a great and adolescent hate. As I've gotten older, I've discovered that I like it every so often. Today is "every so often."
So tonight I'll spend a little time with BB and go to bed early so that I can get up and take a running leap at the week. Wish me luck - and may your week be a good one!
I'm almost afraid to say this, kinehora, but I'm feeling better about myself than I did at the end of last week. That took working some self-imposed non-paid work-related overtime this weekend (about 11-12 hours over two days), which has caused BB to side-eye me a bit, but ultimately he understood that, if it took that to stop me beating myself up about the work situation, then it was - barely - worth it. As a union rep, I should be reading myself the riot act, but mental and emotional self-care trumps the contract - something I wouldn't tell many of my younger colleagues, who routinely let themselves be coerced into working hours and hours without putting in for the OT. They're getting coerced, though, so I have to stand behind them and give them the strength to resist doing that. What I'm doing is, as I've said, quiet self-care.
Yeah, sure, whatever, dude. So long as you believe it.
We're having corned beef and cabbage tonight, two days too late, if one believes strictly in holiday-centric menus. I used to dislike boiled cabbage with a great and adolescent hate. As I've gotten older, I've discovered that I like it every so often. Today is "every so often."
So tonight I'll spend a little time with BB and go to bed early so that I can get up and take a running leap at the week. Wish me luck - and may your week be a good one!
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Date: Monday, 20 March 2017 03:48 am (UTC)Corned beef and cabbage, as I imagine you know, is one remove from proper Irish food. Back home we do bacon and cabbage, and by bacon I don't mean that horrid Ahh Murkan rasher stuff. My previous mother-in-law did some of the best bacon-cabbage-and-spuds of a Sunday. Mine was also awesome, or so I'm told since I never could get my head around the whole Meat of Pig texture thing; instead, I would let H2 eat all the bacon he wanted and for my own part just horse in to the cabbage, which was cooked in the cooking water from the bacon, and the spuds. Well, a bit of spuds. Unpatriotic as it may be of me, I've never been a great spud fan. Give me pasta any day...
Night-night and sleep well, I hope!
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Date: Wednesday, 22 March 2017 11:22 pm (UTC)I can see the enjoyment factor in bacon and cabbage; that's a little like southern or urban black cooking, where they put bacon (or pork hocks)k in with their greens; it gives it a bit of a meaty flavor, getting the maximum use out of pieces of meat that everyone else paler and richer ignored.
I was chatting with BB about your comment, and it occurred to me that perhaps the corned beef and cabbage thing came about over here as Irish immigrants and Jewish immigrants interacted in the New York of the late 1800s and early 1900s. Corned meat of various types was something you found in Jewish butchers, grocers and delis, and maybe at some point Irish immigrants liked the idea of using it instead of bacon? I'm not a culinary historian, so this is just curious maundering on my part, but it could be there's a grain of truth to it. Maybe.
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Date: Friday, 24 March 2017 05:45 am (UTC)Er... um... I'm not at all sure. In the various years I was out your way I was veg, and even though I'm technically a meat eater now I've never been interested in pig-meat or sheep-meat*** so my knowledge of Ahh Murkan bacon, apart from recognising what rashers look like on people's plates, is extremely limited. But I think 'Canadian bacon' is more like what we call gammon - can anyone else help me out here? Irish bacon OTOH comes in big chunks, so it's probably from the shoulder or the haunch of the pig... I think...?
getting the maximum use out of pieces of meat that everyone else paler and richer ignored
This. Because ss mentioned before, my distaste for meat is a texture thing :-)
B's corned beef theory sounds plausible. Hmm, anyone got Mark Kurlansky's phone number? He seems to know a lot about USA food history - I've read several of his books (including the one about North American cod fishing, by the way).
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Date: Monday, 20 March 2017 04:59 am (UTC)Shanghaied idea of using bacon sounds excellent as well though I am more likely to cook my bacon separate (in the oven) and then chop it up and serve it over top the cabbage.
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Date: Wednesday, 22 March 2017 11:23 pm (UTC)You bake your bacon - does that cut out some of the grease factor?
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Date: Thursday, 23 March 2017 12:28 am (UTC)I don't know that it reduces the grease but it allows me to cook more at one time while reducing the need to fuss over it. 18 mins at 375 F worked like a charm (I use nice heavy slices I buy from Millers Meat on St Marys).
After a moments thought, a far bit of the grease stays on the parchment (I cover the cookie sheet with parchment) so I guess it may help... but i really do it because I get more evenly cooked bacon with less fuss.
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Date: Monday, 20 March 2017 06:52 am (UTC)And, yes, mental and emotional self-care trumps the contract when they conflict. Here's to them not conflicting as the future unfolds.
Love you!
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Date: Thursday, 23 March 2017 02:39 am (UTC)no subject
Date: Monday, 20 March 2017 04:07 pm (UTC)I'm glad you're feeling better. Don't mind a bit of cabbage myself.
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